For the questioning nosey, I always say, "I sent out a memo to everyone whose business it was. Didn't you get yours?"
The look on their face is worth it.
But, I've never had the looking in the curtain situation before. If I knew about it, I doubt it would happen a second time, but hesitate to write details. I am appalled.
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The ancient Greek definition of happiness: the full use of your powers along lines of excellence.